My best worst brother
I liked him better when he was just a baby. I held him and he just sat there, looking up at me, smelling like baby shampoo and making sweet baby sounds.
Now he´s almost three, and when I try to hold him, he just kicks and screeches and wants to get down.
When Isaac was a baby, I helped my mom feed him smashed bananas. I made sounds like an airplane and flew the spoon into his mouth when he opened up.
Now, he sits in his highchair and spits out his food and throws it all over.
When Isaac was a baby, all I had to do was run around and act goofy and make silly faces and he´d laugh until he got hiccups.
He loves to play blocks, and I try to play too, but he wants them all to himself. If I ever do build something, he just knocks it down.
My dad said Isaac will be fun to play with again someday, but I´m tired of waiting. I think he acts mean because he can´t talk yet. So, I´m trying to teach him how.
My mom said it will be easier for Isaac to use his hands to make words instead of his voice. She is taking a class in sign language and is teaching me some signs.
When I play blocks with Isaac, I hold one up and make the sign for “please.” I say, “Please! Can you say please, Isaac?”
I give him the block anyway, and make the sign for “thank you.” I say, “Thank you! Can you say thank you, Isaac?”
Last night I held up a block. I made the sign for “please” and said, “Please!”
“Remember when Isaac was born, and we talked about all the things he would do someday?”
“Exactly,” said my dad, kissing my forehead. “He´ll learn to talk when he´s ready.”
Today was Open House at my classroom. My mom and dad came with Isaac. Some of the other kids had younger brothers or sisters too. But they could talk. I was afraid someone might ask why Isaac couldn´t.
Miss Becker came over to my family. She held a plate of cookies and Isaac tried to grab some from her. I felt my face turn red. But Miss Becker just smiled and said to Isaac, “You must be hungry!”
“Wait!” I said. “Look at Isaac!” Isaac was holding his hand on his chest, trying to move it in a circle. “Please! He´s trying to say please!”
Miss Becker gave Isaac a cookie and he took a bite. But then he put his hand on his chin.
Then, of course, Isaac threw the rest of the cookie and hit Miss Becker in the head.
My mom and dad turned red, but Miss Becker just laughed. “That is just what my little brother would have done at that age.”
« What is sign language?
Sign language is a way to “talk” without speaking. Instead of using your mouth to make words, you use your fingers and hands and sometimes your face. In sign language, each word is formed with a special hand shape or movement. People who use sign language can say all the same things that people who speak can say—they just use words you see instead of words you hear.
« Who uses sign language?
Lots of people! Sign language is most often used by people who have trouble hearing or who can´t hear at all. But it is also used by some people who have trouble saying words clearly enough for others to understand. Many people think it´s a good idea to teach sign language to all babies before they learn to speak so they can get their messages across as soon as possible.
« Why do so many kids with Down syndrome use sign language?
Talking can be very hard for babies and children with Down syndrome. One big reason is that they often have weak muscles or problems getting their muscles to work together right. This includes the muscles in the tongue, lips, and mouth that are used to make speech sounds. It is not that they don´t have anything to say. It is that they can´t get their mouth muscles to say what they want. So, sign language helps them express themselves with their hands until they can say the words with their mouths. And they don´t get so frustrated because now other people can tell what they want.
« If a child with Down syndrome learns to use sign language, does that mean he will never talk?
No. Most kids with Down syndrome learn to talk by about age three or four (sometimes later). Using sign language does not keep them from learning to talk. People who use signs with them usually say the words at the same time they are making the signs. They also encourage them to say the parts of words theycan say—like “ba” for ball or bath. Most children with Down syndrome just naturally stop using signs when they can say the words instead.
« Is there such a thing as “baby talk” in sign language?
Yes. You know how some babies say things like “ba-ba” instead of “bottle” or “kee” instead of “kitty”? They usually do this because the real word is too hard for them to say. Well, if a sign is too hard for a baby or young child to make, she will also make the sign simpler. For example, when a baby signs “more,” she might clap her hands instead of putting all her fingertips together. To a baby, this looks about the same and it´s much easier to do.
« Can I learn sign language?
Yes. If your parents are teaching your brother or sister sign language, you can learn it at the same time. Just ask to join in! Your brother or sister will be very excited.
« Can I teach my brother or sister to use sign language like Emma did?
Probably. Ask your mom or dad how you can help. They most likely want to start with just a few important words, like Emma´s parents did. You can make a sign and say the word for it, being sure your brother or sister is watching what you are doing.